From waiting rooms to needles, there's not one part about getting a shot that appeals to Em—besides not contracting a deadly disease.
How to Stay Calm When You Have to Go Get a Flu Shot
- Don't read horror stories.
- Make a plan for something fun to do afterward.
- Have a friend take you.
- Bring some aromatherapy to help you along as you take full, deep breaths.
- Bring something to listen to.
- Play with a fidget spinner or another fidget toy while you wait in the waiting room.
- Ask if you can lay down instead of sitting up for the shot.
- Don't look while it's happening.
- Bring something to drink and a little snack to have afterward.
- Wear a t-shirt with a sweater or jacket over it so you don't have to look at your arm afterward.
Getting shots is definitely not on the top of list of favorites. Then again, neither is the flu, measles or tetanus, so I suck it up and I get it done. Not without a bunch of anxiety though. While I'm no longer young enough to be going in for boosters all of the time, I still make it in each fall for my annual flu shot, before which I used to spend an incredible amount of energy fretting over until I learned these tricks for handling shot anxiety from my therapist.
Don't Read Horror Stories on Reddit or Anywhere Else
Okay, first and foremost, the most important thing I've learned from my therapist is to stop indulging my fears by reading the worst stories about the thing I fear. The problem with this is it's just too easy to Google stuff like "People who died after getting the flu shot," so you need to practice some self-control for your peace of mind. Stop Googling statistics, worst-case scenarios and other stupid stuff and take my anecdotal evidence that the worst part about getting a shot is ripping the band-aid off.
I've never gotten ill, had some freak thing happen to me during or afterward or even passed out. Truly, all of my anxiety was for nothing and reading bad stories (by the handful of people who went to the internet with them) only worsened my nervousness.
Make a Plan for Something Fun to Do Afterward
Having something to look forward to after your shot is going to give you something positive to focus on instead of ruminating on the 20 seconds it'll take you to get the actual shot. For you, going out to lunch and seeing a movie with your best friend might be a fun to-do. For me, it's usually something like re-watching the first few episodes of Gilmore Girls at home in my jammies, something I'm usually too busy to let myself do these days.
Whatever it is, make sure it's something to which the excitement is equal to the fear you feel about going in to get vaccinated.
Have a Friend Take You
Something that helps me a lot when I'm dealing with anxiety is to not be alone. Grab an understanding friend (hey, maybe you can return the favor for them!) to take you to get your shot and even sit with you so that:
A) You won't bail out (it's good to have someone there to hold you accountable) and
B) You'll have someone to distract you a bit from your anxious thoughts.
When I went to get my last flu shot, I had my boyfriend go with me to hold my purse and my hand.
Bring along a vial of lavender essential oil or an aromatherapy rollerball to swipe on your temples while you practice some deep breathing on the ride there and in the waiting room. Just a few deep breaths as you take in scents like lavender, chamomile or eucalyptus can slow down a racing heart and mind and give you a moment to reset your thoughts.
Listen to Music that Relaxes You
Make sure you have a pair of earbuds and a couple songs picked out to listen to while you wait to keep your mind off the quick poke ahead. I like putting on the Indie Pop playlist on Spotify; it gives me some soothing rhythms to focus on without overwhelming me.
Wear and Tee and Bring a Sweater
Whenever I'm having blood drawn or getting a shot I wear a t-shirt so I don't have to hassle with my sleeves, and I layer with a cardigan so I won't have to think about the band-aid afterward. Out of sight, out of mind.
Bring a Sensory Toy to Keep You Busy
If you're a kinetic person who needs to move around to burn off nervous energy but doesn't want to be that person pacing around the doctor's office, bring a fidget spinner, a Tangle toy or even just some Silly Putty to squish around.
Lay Back When You Get Your Shot
Something that always helps me when I'm feeling especially nervous about a needle is to lay down with my knees bent up and my feet planted flat on the exam table instead of sitting while I receive my shot. This way, if I'm feeling a little woozy and faint I'm already laying down which keeps me from actually fainting. Remember, getting poked with a needle doesn't cause fainting, but forgetting to breathe because you're so nervous about the needle does. So let your heart race all it wants to for that brief moment but also remember to take deep breaths and keep 'em coming.
Oh and obviously...
If needles really bother you, don't look!
When it's all over with (which will be quickly), sit up slowly to prevent a sudden drop in blood pressure and when you feel ready get on up and swagger out of there.
Bring a Snack and Drink for Afterward
Anytime I get a poke I always have a granola bar and a sports drink afterward. I probably don't actually need it but it helps raise my blood sugar which helps me feel more alert and less anxious and it gives me something to do on the ride home to move my mind forward and away from the shot and onto the rest of my day.
Terrified of Getting a Shot?
You're not alone - it's a real phobia called Trypanophobia and it can be treated in a number of ways including through cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and the use of prescription numbing creams like Emla (I personally use this one for bloodwork).
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Questions & Answers
Question: Can getting a shot kill you?
Answer: The short answer is no. Vaccine-related deaths are, admittedly not well documented, but I can say that your chances of dying because of a vaccine are so slim you're more likely to die in a car accident on the way there. Here are some quick statistics:
According to the American Academy of Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology, between 2009 and 2011 there were 33 instances of allergic anaphylaxis due to vaccination. None of these instances resulted in a death. In contrast, there were almost 80,000 flu-related deaths in the United States in 2018.
Completely anecdotal, I've received vaccines my whole life and I'm still here, kicking.
Question: Is it normal that I feel like I'm going to pass out before I get a shot?
Answer: Yes, if you have anxiety before you get a vaccine then you're likely not breathing as much as you need to. The less you breathe, the more your brain says "maybe I should take a little nap" thus leading to the feeling you're going to pass out when you're nervous. Bring some awakening aromatherapy (something with eucalyptus works well for me!) and practice deep breathing while you're waiting for your vaccine and that temptation to pass out will ease up.
© 2019 Em Clark