Relief for Neck and Back Pain: 5 Strategies That Gave Me Back My Life

Updated on June 17, 2019
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Madeleine Clays suffered several injuries which left her with chronic neck, shoulder and back pain. These techniques gave her back her life.

Neck, shoulder, and back pain can be delibitating and lead to depression.
Neck, shoulder, and back pain can be delibitating and lead to depression. | Source

My Injury Induced Neck and Back Pain

Over five years ago, while attempting to move a very heavy piece of furniture alone, I severely injured my neck. I remember sitting on the floor in excruciating pain, knowing I should have asked for help, but realizing it was too late—that the damage had been done.

Around the same time, I was rear-ended while yielding off an exit.

Between the two incidents, I was left with chronic neck, shoulder and upper back pain.

I tried the exercises my doctor prescribed, but I found them to be awkward and I stopped doing them.

Not one to pop ibuprofen more than necessary, I soon realized that without it, I felt ongoing discomfort.

I became depressed when I realized that I could no longer run or bike—activities I had always enjoyed.

I think I was hoping the pain would just go away after a few weeks.

But it didn’t.

It took me a while to acknowledge that I needed to change my game plan. I started to research ways to address my neck, shoulder and back pain effectively. In my desperation, I was willing to try just about anything.

Craniosacral therapy uses light touch to relieve deep tension and regulate the cerebrospinal fluid in your body.
Craniosacral therapy uses light touch to relieve deep tension and regulate the cerebrospinal fluid in your body. | Source

5 Strategies That Worked for My Neck, Shoulder and Back Pain

1. Craniosacral Therapy (CST)

What is craniosacral therapy?

Craniosacral therapy is an alternative form of therapy developed by John Upledger in the 1970s. It is based on a cranial therapy approach developed by William Garner Sutherland in the 1930s. A craniosacral therapist uses light touches to the patient’s spine and pelvic bones to release restrictions in soft tissue and regulate the flow of cerebrospinal fluid in the body. This in turn aids the healthy performance of the nervous system and possibly other systems throughout the body.

Some of the conditions CST may help include:

  • chronic neck and back pain
  • migraines and headaches
  • stress and tension-related issues
  • brain and spinal cord injuries
  • post-traumatic stress disorder
  • many others

My body responded very well to CST. I discovered and started this therapy a few months into my injuries. I initially went in for treatment once every two weeks, and then less and less frequently for about a year.

I marveled at how such a gentle, noninvasive technique could relieve my pain so quickly.

I felt a great release of tension in my neck, shoulders and upper back during each session, and left each appointment feeling extremely relaxed.

If you choose to try this therapy approach, be sure to find a practitioner with the required training or license.

While not everybody's body may respond to CST, I am among those who did benefit greatly from it.

Yoga stretches significantly helped relieve my neck, shoulder and back pain.
Yoga stretches significantly helped relieve my neck, shoulder and back pain. | Source

2. Yoga

Prior to my injuries and even for years thereafter, I had not paid much attention to yoga. I was an outdoor enthusiast—mostly a runner and cyclist.

But several years into my injuries, after hearing so many stories of the wonders that yoga could accomplish, I decided I had nothing to lose.

I went online and found specific yoga stretches that target the neck, upper shoulder, and back muscles.

The best part about yoga is all you need is a mat!

Below is the video I watched and used faithfully for several weeks until I memorized the moves. I can now do the stretches to my own music without watching the video.

Yoga Stretches for Back Pain Relief, Sciatica, Neck Pain & Flexibility, Beginners Level Workout

I am so hooked on these yoga stretches, I look forward to doing them every night. That’s a far cry from the same gal who turned her nose at yoga for years!

Honestly, I can feel the good it does to my body and mind when I do these moves on my mat as I play relaxing music.

It’s a perfect way to end my day before hitting the shower and going to bed.

I use these therapy balls to release tightness in my neck, shoulders and back.
I use these therapy balls to release tightness in my neck, shoulders and back. | Source

3. Therapy Balls

These therapy balls are amazing. I read raving reviews about them online and also researched users’ feedback on Amazon before purchasing them.

They worked on me the very first time I used them. I could feel the release of tension almost immediately.

They are firm enough to work tight knots in my neck, upper shoulder and back, yet gentle enough to provide a massage sensation as they roll across these target areas.

You can use them against the wall or the floor.

If you have long hair, make sure you put it up so it doesn't get caught in the friction.

Also, if you have a dog, be sure to keep the therapy balls in a safe place so he doesn't think they're his new toys!

If you spend a lot of time at a desk, be sure to adopt a sitting position that is comfortable for you.
If you spend a lot of time at a desk, be sure to adopt a sitting position that is comfortable for you. | Source

4. Good Computer Posture

Most of us spend a lot of time seated at our desk in front of a computer. Having a comfortable computer chair with proper back support cannot be overstated.

It's equally important that you have proper posture while you're seated in your computer chair.

Some tips that work for me:

  • Adjust my chair so that the computer screen is at eye level.
  • Bend my arms at a 90 degree angle as I use the keyboard (adjust my chair accordingly).
  • Use an armrest when possible. (I have an L shaped desk, and I sit where the two parts intersect so that I can rest my right arm directly on the desk surface to my right as I use the mouse. This alleviates a lot of pressure on my shoulder.)
  • Keep a straight back, shoulders pulled back as I use my keyboard.
  • Bend my knees at a 90 degree angle, with my feet flat on the floor, spread out evenly (lower my chair if needed).

The yoga stretches I mentioned earlier help strengthen my torso. A strong torso helps me sit upright at my computer, which lessens my neck, shoulder and back pain.

Learning ways to relax is a great way to reduce upper shoulder pain.
Learning ways to relax is a great way to reduce upper shoulder pain. | Source

5. Relaxation Techniques

Learning to relax throughout the day is such a critical way to keep your body from tensing up, which can contribute to more pain than you already have.

Specific ways I try to relax daily:

  • Keep my life as simple as possible.
  • Do my yoga stretches to relaxing music daily.
  • Try not to worry about things I can’t control.
  • Pray and meditate.
  • Give my burdens to God.
  • Get plenty of sleep.
  • Use a sound machine to block out noise through the night.
  • Breath deeply throughout the day, especially when I feel stressed.
  • Drink caffeine-free hot tea throughout the day (there are so many tasty and healthy varieties).
  • Use a supportive mattress and pillow that work for my body.
  • Be kind to myself.

It’s been a long journey, but I’m so glad I didn’t’ give up.
It’s been a long journey, but I’m so glad I didn’t’ give up. | Source

A Lifelong Habit

I am happy to say that today, five a half years after my injuries, I am running, biking, and doing all the things I enjoyed doing prior to my injuries. Most importantly, I am not experiencing pain when I do them, and I'm not on any pain medication.

I've learned that to experience continual relief from pain, I have to keep using at least several of these strategies regularly. In fact, I’ll likely keep using these strategies for the rest of my life.

For example, I now do my yoga stretches almost daily and use my therapy balls when I feel excessive tightness in my neck, shoulders and back.

I’m continually mindful of my posture at work and adjust my chair height to a level that allows for comfortable arm support.

Practicing relaxation techniques is almost ingrained in me.

I’ve become so accustomed to these strategies that I hardly think twice when applying them. They are now a habit.

Could my recovery have been quicker had I discovered some of these techniques sooner, or had I used them more consistently?

Possibly. But this has been my journey.

It was not easy, and at times I wanted to give up and just accept that I would never have the same quality of life I had before my injuries.

But I’m so glad I didn’t give up. I'm so thankful for having discovered these techniques that helped me get my life back!

Have you tried any of these techniques for neck or back pain?

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This content is for informational purposes only and does not substitute for formal and individualized diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, and/or dietary advice from a licensed medical professional. Do not stop or alter your current course of treatment. If pregnant or nursing, consult with a qualified provider on an individual basis. Seek immediate help if you are experiencing a medical emergency.

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