As a mom and a registered nurse, I have turned to my writing to help my son get answers to his undiagnosed illness.
With My Son's Permission, I Share His Story
As a concerned mother and registered nurse, I'm sharing the story of my adult son's mystery illness (he was 28 at the time of symptom onset, now 30). The more I read and research, the more I learn mystery diagnoses aren't uncommon, and many people have a lifetime of suffering and unanswered questions and never a firm diagnosis.
He's a husband, father, law enforcer, and military reservist. He went on medical disability in June of 2018 and continues to be unable to work due to constant fatigue and pain. This illness took him to a debilitated state in less than one year. Like others who suffer in this capacity, he needs answers so he can care for his growing family, return to the workforce, and regain his quality of life by ending daily suffering.
With his permission, I wrote this article hoping it goes viral and falls into the hands of expert medical professionals or researchers who can identify a diagnosis and, ultimately, a successful treatment plan. I'll continue to edit this article based on new findings.
I've listed below every test and procedure taken during the worst and current stages of his illness that started in March 2018 and continues to the present day.
For the sake of privacy, I keep my son's name, identifying information, physicians, and medical treatment facilities confidential unless permitted to share or at which time treatment by any particular physician or institution has ceased.
See more about his past and current physicians and facilities at the end of this article.
Background and Medical History
Before the onset of this disease process, my son was a strong and healthy individual with no known health issues, allergies, addictions, or bad habits. He eats a nutritious diet, is fit, athletic, college-educated, and has good mental health. His only complaint was ongoing heartburn and acid reflux that started in mid-2013. To look at most of his laboratory findings and overall physical assessment, he presents clinically as a healthy individual.
My son's childhood, teen, and young adulthood have been mostly benign. He was born at 41-weeks' gestation of an uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery. He had a mild dairy intolerance in his first two years of life he eventually outgrew. His only childhood concerns were frequent bouts of strep throat, ear infections, and a temporary conductive, partial hearing loss, all of which were corrected by having his tonsils and adenoids removed (at age six).
He saw a pediatric endocrinologist during the ages of 14-15 and, at that time, administered monthly testosterone injections (by me) to induce a growth spurt. He grew five inches during that year and went on to be a well-proportioned, muscular, athletic, active young man of 5' 8" with his weight ranging from 160-170 pounds in adulthood, most of which are solid muscle mass. He was also of small stature at <10th percentile for height and weight.
There's no significant family medical history besides renal and liver cancer of his maternal father and maternal grandmother.
Complete List of Symptoms
My son's main complaint is an inability to eat and process almost all foods. He feels dreadfully sick after eating, has frequent belching, and has persistent insomnia due to constant and overall body discomfort. (The listed symptoms wax and wane, and some were at the onset of the illness, while others have lingered.) The biggest concern is severe muscle wasting, unintentional, and difficult-to-manage weight loss, which is down to 134 pounds. This loss happened over just three months. He reached the peak of his weight loss around late June to early July 2018 and has been able to hold steady in the 132-136-pound range by being diligent and aggressive with his daily caloric intake, despite the pain and discomfort following eating. He is hell-bent on beating whatever this is and is fighting hard against his body to maintain his current BMI and trying to regain some muscle mass. If ever someone was willing to fight for a diagnosis and a cure and not give up, it's my son.
His only significant diagnosis is SIBO, for which he is on a strict low FODMAP diet, but his care team feels convinced this is secondary to another primary diagnosis. He prefers not to take any over-the-counter or prescription medications at this time. He has had allergic or unfavorable reactions to the rifaXIMIN XIFAXAN, the drug of choice for treating SIBO. These are all of his symptoms:
Listed in alphabetical order
- Abdominal pain, upper and lower, focused on left side primarily
- Blurred vision (most recent symptom)
- Chest pain & pressure
- Cold hands and feet
- Extreme fatigue & overall weakness
- Eye pressure
- Feelings of heart attack (normal EKG)
- Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease aka GERD (diagnosed 6/2017)
- Hair loss/thinning
- Hot flashes
- Inability to exercise or exert
- Intolerance to most foods
- Jaw pain (since high school, chronic)
- Joint pain
- Lightheaded, faint, dizzy
- Loose stools and intermittent diarrhea
- Loss of all muscle mass
- Memory fog
- Muscle cramping and fasciculations
- Muscle function loss
- Muscle loss - extensive
- Nausea, often severe
- Numbness and tingling in feet (newest symptom)
- Painful swallowing/persistent lump in the throat
- Poor coordination
- The pounding heart also felt in other areas of the body
- Red bumps on feet (newest symptom)
- Sharp ear pain
- Shortness of breath
- Tingling of the skin
- Tongue feels coated
- Unintentional weight loss of 40lbs (from February - May 2018)
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Confirmed Diagnoses Thus Far
- Anemia - mild, chronic (hematology is not concerned; states very mild)
- Carpal Tunnel Syndrome - (EMG)
- Cavitations are present in three of four wisdom tooth sites after an extensive workup. Surgery could be an option, but the dentist tried ozone treatment, which helped with energy afterward for 2-3 weeks, but then worsened.
- Declining Platelets - 207,204,190,185,168,169,162
- Hyperprolactinemia (elevated Prolactin)
- Hyperlipidemia (elevated cholesterol)
- Hypogonadism (low testosterone)
- Idiopathic Leukopenia and Neutropenia (decreased white blood cells)
- Elevated Lipase - slightly elevated
- Corn Allergy - mild
- Gastritis - chronic
- Pituitary Prolactinoma (benign, 6mm) - he did not respond favorably to the drug used to treat, so no medication at this time, prolactin level has decreased, but is still elevated.
- Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO) - allergic reaction to the drug Rifaximin used to treat SIBO and is now taking herbals, with no improvement as of yet. Also, on a strict low FODMAP diet.
What This Mystery Disease is Not
Doctors have been able to rule out the following suspicions:
- Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (Lou Gehrig's Disease)
- Blood Diseases
- Cancer or Malignancy (released and cleared by Hem-oncologist)
- Cardiac Disease
- Celiac Disease
- Diabetes Insipidus
- Gallbladder Disease
- Kidney Disease
- Liver Disease
- Lyme Disease - we still question whether this could be the culprit despite the negative result
- Multiple Sclerosis
- Whipple's Disease
Completed Diagnostic Testing
Assume a negative or benign result unless specified in italics. (listed in alphabetical order)
- Abdominal Ultrasound
- Cardiac Echocardiogram
- Cardiac Stress Test
- Chest X-ray
- Colonoscopy - Polyp of the sigmoid colon
- CT Scan Chest and Abdomen w/wo Contrast
- CT Scan of Abdomen and Pelvis w/Contrast
- CT Scan of Mouth for Oral Cavitations
- ECG 12 Lead - sinus tachycardia, same time fever, and pneumonia diagnosed
- EMG with Nerve Conduction - Carpal Tunnel Syndrome
- Enteroscopy - developed aspiration pneumonia a few hours post-procedure/chest pain and fever.
- Gastric Emptying Study
- MRI, Pituitary w/wo Contrast - Pituitary Adenoma
Completed Laboratory Testing
Assume a negative or benign result unless specified in italics (listed in alphabetical order).
- 5-HIAA Urine 24-hour
- ALPHA-1-ANTITRYPSIN QN
- Amylase & Lipase - mildly elevated Lipase
- Antinuclear Antibody
- Blood Cultures
- Breath Testing, Lactulose - +SIBO
- C-Reactive Protein
- Calprotectin, Fecal
- Carcinoembryonic Antigen
- CBC - Mild anemia
- Comprehensive Metabolic Panel
- Copper - pending
- Creatine Kinase
- D-Dimer, Qualitative
- Electrolytes Stool
- Epstein Barr
- Fecal Fat
- Fecal Leukocytes
- Flow Cytometry Whole Blood - Mixed phenotype, no monoclonal B cell population identified. The peripheral blood shows a mixture of mature granulocytes, phenotypically normal T cells, B cells without light chain restriction, and monocytes. The findings are nonspecific and require clinical correlation. See the comment.
- Folic Acid
- Follicle Stimulating Hormone
- Fungal Culture
- Glucose - always borderline or slightly elevated
- H. Pylori Antigen EIA
- Heavy Metals - Positive for Organic Arsenic
- Hemoglobin A1C - Borderline
- Hepatitis Panel
- IBD Expanded Panel
- Immuno Occult Blood - Positive
- Influenza A/B
- Ionized Calcium
- Iron, TIBC, Transferrin - Low Iron
- Lipid Panel
- Luteinizing Hormone
- Lyme Antibody
- Lyme/Western Blot
- Mayo Paraneoplastic AutoAB2
- Metanephrines, Fractionated Urine
- Metanephrines, Plasma
- Methylmalonic Acid Serum
- Mitochondrial and Smooth Muscle Antibody
- Occult blood Stool - Positive
- Osmolality Stool
- Osmolality Urine
- Pancreatic Elastase, Fecal
- Parathyroid Hormone
- Peripheral Blood Smear - Atypical, reactive-appearing lymphocytes, which could reflect a viral or reactive process
- Prolactin - Hyperprolactinemia
- Sedimentation Rate
- Stool Enteric Protozoan Panel
- Stool PCR
- Testosterone - Hypogonadism
- Thyroid Panel
- Vitamin B12
- Vitamin D
- WBC Stool
- Xylose Tolerance
Specialists Consulted to Date
- Functional Medicine
- Gastroenterologist x2
- Holistic Dentist
- Infectious Disease
- Internal Medicine
- Physical Therapy
- Precision Medicine
My Son had his wisdom teeth extracted before starting college, and there were instances of retained bone fragments and/or pieces of the tooth that he would spit out from time to time. His general dentist (who also performed the surgery) was not concerned about that or his ongoing jaw and gum pain complaints for years following the surgery.
For this concern, he has researched oral cavitations that house trapped bacteria that might cause chronic infection in the body. He sought the assessment advice and ultimately tried ozone gas therapy from a holistic dentist. He received ozone therapy x1 for testing positive for these cavitations and very briefly felt a tad better. His symptoms tend to wax and wane with short periods of increased energy, so it wasn't clear if this helped, and there is much controversial debate on the topic.
- Hepatitis A, B and C (has all positive titers)
- Influenza - not this season
- MMR (positive titer, no vaccine)
The Quest For Optimal Health and Quality of Life
My best advice to anyone suffering from an undiagnosed condition is to keep pressing your care team to move forward and never doubt yourself. Only you know how you feel and can accurately relay that information to your providers.
Practitioners must "treat the patient" and not the lab results. If you can't get answers, move on to another physician until you find someone who'll listen. It may take diligence and effort to make that happen, but don't be afraid to be proactive in your quest for help. Even if they tell you "it's all in your head" and suggest a psychiatric evaluation, go ahead and do it. It's the only way to prove your symptoms are not psychosomatic and get someone to listen and take your situation seriously. Do not ever give up, do your homework, read, and network like I'm doing now.
Sometimes it takes an army to get answers, and you'll have to fight small and seemingly never-ending battles to get answers. It's worth the fight to get your life back and feel good again.
The Undiagnosed Disease Network at the National Health Institute - DENIED
An application was submitted to the National Institute of Heath (NIH) in Bethesda, MD, for the Undiagnosed Disease Network (UDN) in late September 2018 and his case was ultimately declined in late February 2019. We had high hopes for his acceptance, as this was our his last hope at more in-depth testing with experts who specialize in this arena, and the application process was quite involved. This was a huge disappointment after such a long waiting process.
Current Leads and Closed Doors
My son was under the expert care of John's Hopkins, in Maryland, from the onset of his symptoms until May 2019, when he and his family moved back to our hometown. The first two months of attending appointments at John's Hopkins was a fight. He could only see a Physician's Assistant, which was beyond frustrating. His complaints were ignored as they referred him for a psychiatric evaluation.
My son's wife and I escalated a series of emails and phone calls to get his case reviewed and finally transferred to the Chief of Internal Medicine. Finally, this team thoroughly looked for everything imaginable but couldn't diagnose his condition. He ultimately took him on as a private patient, along with many other specialists.
As a result of this blog in 2019, we connected with a renowned pathologist at the University of Alabama, Birmingham, who practices Precision Medicine. We were ecstatic about this connection, and their team was eager--at first--to help. They lost momentum for my son's case for reasons still unknown to us, and all contact stopped despite our best efforts and all-out begging for help as we attempted to reignite the connection without success. My son has yet to find an internist to take on his case who will listen and take him seriously--so he gave up on modern medicine. Today, he follows a very rigid diet that consists of 100% organic foods, most of which he raises and grows himself. His diet is primarily animal-based (beef, chicken, and raw milk) with specific vegetables and no sugar other than pure maple syrup and homemade honey. Most of his food is fermented, and the only bread he can eat is a homemade sourdough made with special flour.
He has made significant progress but still has a long way to go. He still suffers many of the symptoms mentioned and has difficulty sleeping. His quality of life improves slowly as he regains lost strength and stamina. He eats a lot but can't gain and still lingers around the 130 lb. mark, which is at least 40 lbs from the first photo I shared earlier in the article. He has trouble building lean muscle and suffers from extreme fatigue and insomnia. He's stronger than he was in 2018-19, but I still wish and hope that one day this article will fall into the hands of someone who might have an answer or be willing to help get one.
Please follow and stay tuned, and if anyone reading this has any suggestions, please reach out to me.
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Questions & Answers
Question: Where does Vibrio bacteria come from?
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Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on April 27, 2019:
Sadly, no. We are still hoping for this post to somehow go viral enough to fall into the right hands.
jerry godinho on April 27, 2019:
Thanks for writing on mystery illness. Modern medicine does not have all the answers. I use chiro, naturapath and massage therapy and also try to heal health. Thanks for writing a wonderful and insightful post.
Snehal on April 27, 2019:
This is so sad and confusing at the same time. I really wish someone is able to help. Or did you find help yet?
Melody Dunithan from Indiana on April 12, 2019:
An undiagnosed illness that goes for a long time is scary. I pray that someone will be able to relate to this and have information that will help. I hope the surgery has a positive impact. I have no great medical connections, but perhaps, someone down the road does. I've shared in the hopes that others will, too.
Megan Kerry on March 11, 2019:
This is such a thorough post. I am so sorry for what your family has been through. I hope this information can reach someone who is able to come up with an answer for you. I am a nurse as well in Canada so I'll share this with some people I know in the hopes that it might spark something.
Erica (The Prepping Wife) on March 11, 2019:
Wow, the amount of challenges your son faces is insane! I’m so sorry. The amount of time with doctor visits and testing has to be both physically and emotionally taxing on both of you. Big hugs to you both!
Andrea (2oddravens) on March 11, 2019:
I hope that you're able to find some answers soon! It is awful having a condition that you can't really get help for because the doctors don't know what is going on. I pray for your son's health, and that he has a healthy, happy life.
Subhashish Roy on March 11, 2019:
As it is illnesses are scary. And if it is a mystery illness it must be so tough dealing with the unknown.I feel for your son.I pray, may God bless him & cure him.
Thuy on March 11, 2019:
I sincerely hope you find the answers you are looking for and that whatever it is can be treated! It’s so scary to not know what is happening to a family member and I’m sending you all my best wishes
Candace on March 11, 2019:
Stay diligent! I pray your son gets some answers soon.
Candace on March 11, 2019:
This is so thorough. These doctors need to have more concern and awareness when it comes to treating illnesses. I pray he gets better soon.
Lindsay Brown on March 10, 2019:
Reading about this makes my heart so sad for you and your son. The intense amount of testing he has gone through must be tough in and of itself and then not finding any concrete answers, infuriating. I pray that your family finds the answers and a diagnosis soon.
In the meantime, if you are still looking to get your post here to go viral, have you tried submitting it to secondary sites? I know that Thought Catalog publishes posts similar to this and their submission process is simple. It may help get your message out there to new eyes.
You and your son are in my thoughts. Good luck with finding the answers you are looking for.
Live Learn better on March 10, 2019:
I can only imagine the fortune gone into this. All I can pray for is that God's divine healing hands touch him.
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on March 09, 2019:
He is a military reservist, but has only spent a few weeks in Germany and then in New Mexico for his job for 4 months...which ironically, he fell severely ill shortly after that assignment. We can't find any correlation though. I will look into the radium; I do not think that one has been checked. Lyme never leaves the list of possibilities. He has been an avid outdoorsman all his life, so we are suspicious.
Lauren Forsythe on March 09, 2019:
He's gone through a lot of tests, and I pray you figure out what is wrong soon! My first thought is that this sounds like Lupus or something else autoimmune. I saw he was negative for the ANA test. However, I think there are a small amount of people that have Lupus but a negative ANA. I could also understand how Lyme disease hasn't been completely ruled out.
Does your son have any travel history to other countries?
Has radium toxicity been ruled out? He sounds similar to the radium girls story where they had an unknown illness that started in the jaw and moved systemically.
Was he ever deployed in the military? I know there are some people struggling with undiagnosed disease from burn pits they were exposed to while deployed.
Carol on March 09, 2019:
The battery of test he’s been through is extensive. I pray you find the underlying cause. Great advice about pressing the medical team and going with your gut.
firstname.lastname@example.org on March 09, 2019:
I seriously hope you can find some answers. This is so sad, and I feel bad for him, having to go through that. This could be any of us! Praying you find out what is going on and also for his speedy recovery!
Scott DeNicola on March 09, 2019:
When I originally read this I was thinking some form of Celiac. You mentioned what’s happening today with so many IBS and Celiac cases and it has to do with how we have changed wheat in this country. From what I’ve seen and read years ago there was a change to have our wheat produce more per field and that change in the wheat is not tolerated by our bodies. That’s why people can’t eat wheat in the US but go to Italy and have no problem with it. I’m not a doctor by any means but there are a few documentaries on it. What’s with Wheat is one I recall. I’ve also read a lot about gut health causing all sorts of other issues like inflammation etc. I hope you find out what’s going on with him and god bless you both.
clio on March 08, 2019:
So sorry for your son! And thank you for sharing this journey, so that others can contrbute or benefit from the experience.. I hope they can soon find out more about this! Best of luck.
Laura on December 18, 2018:
I am so sorry your son is going throyfh all this. I am sending prayers. Yes, i will definately share this on my page. I hope you find some answers soon.
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on December 07, 2018:
I will ask about the D-Robose.
He did have allergy testing in the summer and all they found was corn sensitivity. I wonder if the testing was not a comprehensive panel that they did on my son? Worth checking into.
How are you feeling now and how long did all of this take to diagnose?
Tia on December 07, 2018:
I have a lot of similar symptoms and had similar difficulty getting any help from doctors. I have two suggestions that might be useful:
1. Has your son tried D-Ribose as a supplement? It can help a lot with chronic fatigue for some people. In my case, it helped me feel better, and it also helped me figure out what the root cause of the problem was, because instead of feeling constantly awful, I only felt awful sometimes. Eventually, I was able to see the pattern.
2. For me, the problem is mold. I have a confirmed (skin-prick-tested) mold allergy, but many doctors don't seem to realize that mold can be a food allergy, too. It sounds like your son has had enough testing done that he would know by now if he is allergic to mold, but in case not ... it might be worth checking.
3. This suggestion is a bit "out there" but there is increasing interest in microbiome analysis. Maybe your son could find answers that way? Just a thought ... I have no experience with this.
I hope you find the answers you are looking for.
Emily on November 29, 2018:
I am so sorry to hear all of this. I hope that y'all get the answers that you need and that your son has a full recovery to health. I am wishing the best of luck!
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on November 27, 2018:
Hi Sally, thank you for your kind words and suggestion. I’m so sorry to hear of another person suffering from so many of these symptoms. I’m glad you have a working diagnosis. I feel like I’m coming across more and more people with Crohn’s, IBS and Celiac, And it makes me wonder what we are doing today that precipitates so many of these diseases. What is in our diets or the environment that could causing so much turmoil in our bodies? I’d be interested in hearing how you cope day to day with these symptoms, what helps, and what exacerbates them?
Sally McNeil on November 26, 2018:
I am so sorry your son is enduring these debilitating symptoms. I myself endure the majority of the symptoms listed, and have been diagnosed with a multitude of conditions, unfortunately all of which I will have for the rest of my life. When reading your story the first thing that came to mind was Crohn's disease, but i see your son has consulted 2 X Gastroenterologists and has undergone a conlonoscopy and nothing of this nature was found. Thats not
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on November 26, 2018:
Kathy Kulp...looking into it now, thank you!
Kathy Kulp on November 26, 2018:
Please consider a reading from the Medical Medium who channels spirit and has much success!!!! Please do this!
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on November 26, 2018:
Thank you! He lives on the east coast, so no, he has not tried the Mayo Clinic yet. May I ask what your mystery diagnosis is? (you can message me if you'd prefer to not announce it publicly).
Gingeber on November 26, 2018:
I was wondering if you had considered going to the mayo clinic?
I went as a last resort and was finally given a diagnosis after three years
Of many specialists not having a clue. Sending prayers that you get your
Debra Roberts (author) from Ohio on November 26, 2018:
Thank you Susan, I will do whatever it takes for him to get his life back! Yes, he has had both air and water testing at their home. That was done after he tested positive for high levels of arsenic, which has been deemed to be organic arsenic in nature and no longer a concern. Great question!
Susan Ream from Michigan on November 26, 2018:
You are a mom who will uncover all stones to find a cure for your dear son. My heart hurts for you. Have you had your home inspected by an indoor air quality specialist for mold or chemical toxicities?